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Old 10-17-2012, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted by lizroser View Post
Something that my husband and I have recently realized is that being polyamorous does not mean that you get to do whatever you want.
What is it you want to do which you are not allowed to?

Originally Posted by lizroser View Post
I have been practicing compersion as often as I can, and I feel like I've been doing a better job at it. But it is so hard to practice compersion for someone who I feel is constantly surprising me with new additions, with no thought or concern about how it is going to affect my feelings.
What actions are you expecting he should take? He sounds like he is living his life to the fullest and you are struggling to be ok with it. What gestures would he need to make to help you feel more secure in your relationship?
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent
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