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Old 10-15-2012, 09:40 PM
AggieSez AggieSez is offline
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In my experience, things have a better chance of working out when you embark upon relationships with people *as they actually are* rather than *as you'd wish them to be*

In this case, she'd wish your partner was single, with no other partners (and implicitly, available for a monogamous commitment to her and her alone).

Meanwhile, your partner wishes that she would be accepting (eventually) of his relationship with you.

All the chemistry in the world probably can't bridge the gap between these wishes and reality, IMHO
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