I've had that happen. I said "oh well" and moved on.
The other choice would be to give up a perfectly good relationship (the open marriage) to take a chance that probably wouldn't work with the new monogamous person.
It's about being mature and self-aware and realizing that the only person you can control is yourself.
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The situation is hopeless, but not serious.
Reality is too complex to be spread all over the world.
Pretty please, with sugar on top: clean the fucking car.
DO NOT PULL THE STRING/TINSEL/HAIR/ELASTIC/ETC. OUT OF A CATS ASS!!! YOU CAN INJURE THE CAT! Google it or PM me if you need more info.
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