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Old 10-15-2012, 06:36 PM
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I would think that anyone who puts on a "cam show" right away, before getting to know you, is somewhat suspect. Ewww. But how can you really say your heart is broken? You never even met her. Sure, disappointed, and I'm sorry she had you going there, but did you actually fall in love with her and are now heartbroken over someone who did a little porn show for you online and just texted you a lot? It seems, if you are that gullible (and most of us are somewhat gullible about certain things, I think), you should strive to be more cautious and hold back a little on your emotions until trust and knowledge of a person is established and you actually experience being with them for real. Develop better discretion and be sure to ask lots of questions if you're going to have an online romance.
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