I find it funny that a thread where a person asks about people's rules has turned into a lengthy debate over whether rules are needed. Why not just skip if you have nothing to add about the topic?
I don't use the word rules, but I do have expectations from my partners, and I aim to act the same way towards them
- love; caring about and liking each other
- autonomy; space and support for leading happy and fulfilling lives outside of the relationship
- support in hardship