I'm glad you could join our forum.
Sounds like you have some tough decisions on the road ahead. You might need to confront your boyfriend about the importance of prioritizing his relationship with you, but you may have already tried that, and he may already be well aware.
I hope the advice offered has helped you reflect on the situation, and decide what to do. Let us know how things turn out.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"