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Old 10-12-2012, 01:39 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
Posts: 1,487

Did the survey.

There were a lot of questions relating to the responder's personality type and a few questions that were hard to answer because I wanted to ask "in what context". The compersion questions were interesting because my answers were slightly different between MrS and Dude due to the discrepancy of the lengths of our relationships. I trust MrS more because he has earned that trust over the last 20 years - I know he would not hurt me. I actually trust Dude more, 18 mos in, then I trusted MrS at the same time frame of our relationship (because MrS is the one that taught me to trust in the first place - it took a while) - but he doesn't know me well enough yet to be able to predict how I would feel about he could hurt me inadvertantly.

Anyway - good luck with your survey.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (23+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (4+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi married (to TT) female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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