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Old 10-12-2012, 12:15 AM
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hi everyone,

me, j and g had a long chat last night and aired out our problems...

when j first met me and g she said she thought she had to be my gf to be my g's gf.

tonight we get a text off her bf saying they both no longer want anything to do with us because of me and saying I am dramatic and they can't see just one of us ie g and not the other as we are a couple...

I am truly heartbroken
I am sorry your heart is breaking.

Was her bf involved with you, too? And is that true that you will only date as a couple?
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