I really don't like rules. Maybe it's just me but I don't really have "rules" in my marriage. We're adults, we do our best to respect each other and meet each other's needs. So far we haven't felt the need for anything beyond trying to communicate clearly with each other.
Me: 32 year old poly pansexual Dominant female, married to Mark (married 10 years). Dating Jennifer, 4 months, and Henry, 3 months.