Okay, this goes far beyond what I identify in with in this guy. He really is a bit on the personality disorder side of things it seems.
I see no reason why the last chance can't be all of you talking about it one more time. After that, if he is going to continue trying to control the situation then I would agree that mcbeth would need to really consider what he wants from all this and whether or not he can respect being with a woman who let's someone control her and their relationship.
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