View Single Post
  #10  
Old 10-11-2012, 04:11 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is online now
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 2,911
Default

Quote:
I am indeed concerned with being replaced. My problem is not with becoming friends, but with my insecurity.
Quote:
Another thing is that I used to desire a poly relationship, having a primary partner and pursuing other partners elsewhere, but none seriously. That is something that would make me ideally happy.

The V-type relationship with two equal men is what makes her ideally happy.

I worry that only her getting exactly what she wants, and me dealing with a situation that is, in my opinion, less than ideal, will lead to further inequalities.
That is why you talk to your sweetie. I do not expect you to answer point by point. I don't need to know your private biz!

But it sounds like in open model relationships?

http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef/p...iola/open.html

You sound like you favor a primary-secondary flavor to it? Maybe a 1C?

She wants a non-heirarchy thing? A 2?

Sort yourselves out. Read article and talk to each OTHER. Also read on jealousy/insecure and opening up stuff.

http://www.morethantwo.com/
http://www.serolynne.com/poly_jealousy.htm
http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/do...documents.html
http://openingup.net/resources/free-...om-opening-up/

GL!
GG

Last edited by GalaGirl; 10-11-2012 at 04:16 AM.
Reply With Quote