Originally Posted by nycindie
And what would be so wrong or bad about that?
How nice to have a friendship with your metamour! Or is it that you only want a triad? I'm confused by this statement.
I have nothing against being friends with him... I just... I don't know. She wants there to be more, she wants a long term relationship between the three of us, but I am uncertain if that is something that I want. I want to be the main lover of my lover. And I am indeed concerned with being replaced. My problem is not with becoming friends, but with my insecurity.