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Old 10-10-2012, 03:31 PM
nurseypoo1 nurseypoo1 is offline
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Im sorry if i frustrate anyone. We have discussed it and as terrible as it sounds...and unfair as it may be...i will only be comfortable as "primary". I know some dont like this...but its the only way i would feel ok. We have too much invested in each other and have dealt with too many things together to just be able to say otherwise at this juncture. I hope im not coming across as selfish to anyone. But for those of us who were very comfortable riding along on our monogamy train...this is a huge shake up to our comfortable and familiar lives...regardless of the reasons for starting it. There have been positives... but there have also been negatives. Trying to adopt this whole poly/multiple attitude is very hard...especially if u have adjustment disorder already. Lol. Im trying very hard. I just feel like im kind of stuck right now. Old habits die hard.
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