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Old 10-10-2012, 05:05 AM
SkylerSquirrel SkylerSquirrel is offline
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Here is what I concluded from the SpeakOutLoud list:

He does almost all of the behaviors under these categories:
- One-sided power games
- Mind games
- Emotional unkindness and violation of trust
- Denial, minimizing, blaming
- Domestic slavery

He does about half of the behaviors under these categories:
- Degradation (involving excessive criticism)
- Economic abuse under "she is put in charge of the money" (involving him overspending)
- Separation abuse (involving fear/blackmail)

Plus one or two things in most of the other categories. He has done nothing in the "overprotection and caring" or "physical abuse" lists.
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