Originally Posted by happinesswins
I hope that my contributions haven't caused you to have to further justify your reasons for seeking advice here.
Even if they have, I welcome the challenge. Only when people are forced to question their thought process can they be confident in the decisions they've made. I won't deny that a part of me was irritated at having to justify both my decision about the situation and motivation for seeking help here. But without those prompts, I couldn't be so confident that I wasn't acting out of a purely selfish place.