Originally Posted by Sugar
Steven, I'm not sure what in my post made you think I was wanting to just "fuck around"I hope that my husband and I can find another person to share our life and family with. I don't see how sharing marriage and family brought you to that conclusion.lol
I didn't jump to a conclusion, just a cautionary word. IME the love part comes first, then the inclusion into the relationship. Although there are times when a threesome develops into something more, I don't think it happens often. (no, I'm not suggesting that I think you're going to go out and have a threesome off the bat).
Good luck in your decision. I hope you can find someone you both love soon.