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Old 10-09-2012, 07:48 AM
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Ah, well, there is no such thing as the perfect woman. And it will be especially hard if you want that perfect woman to "add to" your existing relationship - like a condiment added to a steak!


There are a gazillion threads that could be helpful to you, if you do a tag search for "unicorn," "third," "triad," etc., but here are a few to start you off:

Added to, Joining In

Why Is it So Hard?

Frustrated M/F Couple

advice for couple seeking third
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/

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