Just wanted to add that everyone does have limits, but some people's limits are more complicated than others. My personal reaction when I read through your boundary list was "whoa ... too many rules." That doesn't mean that rules are bad. That just means that I know my own preferences - I like a few simple, commonsense, broad rules instead of hammering out a bunch of details. I know what I'm looking for in a relationship, and that is not it.
So I basically agree with everything nycindie said.
Independent polyperson seeking friendships, in which physical intimacy may or may not develop.
I do not wish to attach to any particular person. My love knows no limits.