I know all poly relationships can not marry. Only the married couple is legal There's different terminologies for each. I guess i can't use the word loosely. As far as the BDSM, and i being Dominant,it obviously is implied, and you understand to mean as such. The parties who write me and ask can write me for details. No disrespect but i feel there's others who are not specific about their wants either, maybe they want some privacy with the matter and require discretion on who they are involved. But i appreciated informing me about the Polyandry, if not this then how do i title my search for MFM?