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Old 10-09-2012, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Stevenjaguar View Post
@ lapwing: That's the thing to do. An honest conversation is a must with every involved, except maybe current bf is he's soon to be out of the picture.
Until the bf actually IS out of the picture, he's IN the picture and therefore deserving of honesty and open communication. Like AT pointed out, this is terrible advice.

Have you slept with either of the couple? I think that would be a requisite before you begin.
Are you out of your mind? That's completely ass-backwards, putting the cart before the horse.

Of all the relationships I've ever observed, those that begin with sex never have the smoothest path to the best outcome, if they get there at all. Sex is in no way a pre-requisite for a loving relationship. First find out if you're emotionally compatible. If not, then sex is irrelevant... Unless you just want to be their fuck toy, which doesn't seem to be the case.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.

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