Originally Posted by JaneQSmythe
Hello and Welcome to the forums.
Welcome to the roller coaster.
You're about to embark on the scariest and potentially the most rewarding period of your life. Welcoming a third person into your relationship is a big step so be as picky as you would in choosing your primary partner. And with dating, it's going to be a selection process with all the pitfalls like lousy first dates, bad first time sex and breaking up. There's also the potential for making a solid relationship that will last a lifetime.
You will probably go through a time where you each will date another, separate person for a while and move slowly toward one person you both will love. It's good that you can consider sex with another woman as I think it usually works out better if each can have a sexual relationship with the other two.