Sorry if it seemed like your thread got threadjacked! That was not my intent.
I really did not set out to serialize this situation or create an ongoing soap opera for anyone else's edification. I've really just been using this forum to sort out my feelings and thoughts about my role, limited though it may be, and seek input from a few experienced poly outsiders.
Sounds like maybe you want it be more blog thread like?
Did you want this to be moved to the blog thread area? You could ask for that here.