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Old 10-07-2012, 01:40 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
Posts: 1,205

Hello, and welcome to the forums!

You might have better luck if you give a bit more detail about what you are looking for - for instance: your ages, the ages of women that you are seeking, your hobbies/interests, is it ok if she smokes? drinks? has kids? has pets? has husband?

What if she is interested in only one of you?
Are you OK with an LDR or does she have to be local?
Are you looking for a co-primary or secondary partner?

Everyone does poly differently - there are so many variables. Letting people know who you are and what you are looking for may help let you stand out from the crowd of "Unicorn Hunters" and find that special someone.


PS. FWB can be frustrating at times, but I don't know that I would consider it an "ordeal"...
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (22+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
TT: poly male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
VV and MsJ: bi-women with male primaries, LTR LDR FWBs to JaneQ

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe

Last edited by JaneQSmythe; 10-07-2012 at 01:42 AM. Reason: spelling and PS
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