Originally Posted by finch
I have not been able to get this message across, I guess because I get loud when something that is so apparent to me is so foggy to another person.
I relate to this
. Do some searches here or on the web in general in "Non-Violent Communication". Learn about your communication style and his and learn how to speak his language and how to teach him yours. Believe me, even a small shift in how we communicate can make a HUGE difference.