To be fair to him, he says he is perfectly ok with having other guys in the house. But I am really not sure he has thought it through that much.
He told his lifelong best friend last night, and didn't get much support. Everyone thinks he is being crazy. Everyone.
So at this point I am kind of beginning to check out of the relationship. Part of me wants to try to convince him that what he wants will never happen -- it's like quitting your job because your dream is to win the lotto and claiming you'll never be happy otherwise. But part of me is starting to feel like...jesus christ, forget this guy.