Too often, I see people come here asking how they can learn to trust their partner again. The problem is, many times, the partner simply is not trustworthy.
Say you go to your local grocery store, and every time you buy their meat, you get food poisoning. Would you try teaching yourself to eat their meat without getting food poisoning? Or would you quit buying meat from that store?
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice.....
“As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.” —bisexualbaker