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Old 10-04-2012, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
She's really scared about feeling isolated from everyone because of distance and not being able to call/text on a regular basis. And there's some fears that if she isn't around her friendships with us and her relationship with Primal will end up disappearing.

How do I help with making sure things are okay?
I understand that would make her feel isolated. But if someone is truly your friend, your friendship doesn't "disappear" just because you don't have a cell phone or internet. If that causes your relationship to dissolve then it wasn't very strong to begin with, don't you agree?

If it makes you feel any better, I went for 11 years without speaking to one of my partners, and our relationship picked up right where it left off. No - in fact it never even felt like it "left off" in the first place. Of course, many people require the validation of continuous contact or they feel abandoned. Can't really help you if that's the case with you and yours.
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