You feel whatever you feel when you feel it.
If my dh wanted to reopen an old flame I would expect him to change the behaviors toward me like that phone thing so I could see my needs are also being taken on board. You cannot hope to tend to another partner well when you shirk tending the one you already have. You risk your existing partner having mental and emotional pain by your doings
You have spoken up and his actions tell you he does not consider you
Last edited by GalaGirl; 10-03-2012 at 05:20 PM.