I don't mind sharing at all. That's kind of why I'm here.
At the moment I'm not dating, more out of a lack of options than a desire to be monogamous. I've been encountering a lot of single, monogamous men just looking to get laid and 'poly' women who end up being unwilling threesome bait for their male partners. I guess I'm in kind of a dry spell
I have dated outside the relationship in the past though. We didn't seem to have these same kinds of issues when I was dating. I feel like being poly comes more naturally to me than it does to him, but I'm not really sure what the issue is.