I never figured out the 'numbers' game anyhow. Some people see my number as middle-of-the-road, others see it as some 'shockingly' low number, considering the bi/open-marriage stuff. Depending how you dub 'sex', I just know it's less then my age !
- To a nun, 4 sexual partners is a lot. You're being prayed for. lol
- To your best conservative friend, 4 is pretty average.
- To some hipster, you are a prude, and need to get out more.