I just got back on the site after being off for awhile. I took my time filling out a profile, and putting up a picture I know, then I started in on the questions and some tests. I don't know what the deal is, but other than the really inappropriate one sentence pick up lines I've been just flooded with whiners!
"You looked at my profile and didn't message me! What's up with that?"
Um, most of the time if I looked at your profile it's because you were in my quiver, or more likely, you looked at my profile! So if I give a thoughtful reply about what I saw on the profile and how you didn't message me either, they fade away. When did people start getting so upset about NOT being contacted first? Fine if I ignore you but never messaged you and never got a message? I blame facebook. People used to their 'likes'
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly.
DH: My husband of 19 yrs and father of 3 teen girls.
DC: LDR of +4 year