Originally Posted by MelandJohn
We'd be willing for same room sex or women sharing... I want a woman.
Do you want a woman for yourself, or does she have to be into 3somes as well? Would your male partner not let you just have a gf or casual play partner to yourself? That would be much easier to find.
Personally, I've done quite a few 3somes at this point and much prefer one on one sex. 3ways are so complicated. Sometimes emotionally, but often just the physical logistics make me feel too scattered and therefore unable to focus and be brought to the best orgasms.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)