As you may well have noticed, there are lots of couples out here looking for a bi female. "Standing out from the crowd" can be quite a challenge, and many have reported a lack of success.
What I have noticed is that most of the posts are just too generic - "need a bi female as a friend and for sex" doesn't really tell anyone much about what they are looking for beyond a gender and capability for sex.
Is it ok if this person has other relationships, or is married? What about smoking - are you smokers? Is it ok if she is? If she already has children?
I'm sure you get the idea.
Good luck on your hunt.
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