Not much to report. C has been hard to pin down. Which is okay, except, I want to have another date to gauge interest - both mine and his - and then broach the idea of a non-partnered dating/sexual relationship.
A has basically poofed - which is okay by me, since I had reservations.
It's been interesting to me that my poly/poly-friendly friends are all "Yeah, get back in the dating pool! Have fun! Get laid!" and variations thereof. My monogamous friends are all "You must wait 1-3 yrs, you must heal, you aren't ready to date, just be by yourself and enjoy it".
Except of course, one of my friends who is a lovely blend - "Yeah, date, have sex, have fun, and then go home and have your space to enjoy by yourself". No wonder she and I get along so well.
"This, too, is sacred."
I am my own primary.
Me: F, 30's, bi.
Sadist: my fwb. M, 30's.
Pandora: Sadist's gf. F, 30's.