Originally Posted by BoringGuy
I didn't mean to imply that it "can't" work that way. But it doesn't sound like you went "looking for" a FWB. You were just doing your thing and you found someone compatible in that way. I, too, have had other sex partners that started out as "just sex" and we became friends afterward (although usually the sex stopped as one or both of us would find a girlfriend or boyfriend to be "in love" with - these were all "back in the day", so to speak). It's sort of like those unicorn-hunting couples wanting a FMF triad. Sure, that's possible, but if you try to force it, it will probably not meet the expectations you had going in.
Well i think its better to have friends first then the sex part...... i started to feel jealous about it (should have done that before i got married
) ahh well at least my mind is quite content with my wife (best friend, wife, co-parent to our kids, great fuck-buddies
and great play-mates).
Lets see how it goes