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Old 10-01-2012, 01:03 AM
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"I hate you, don't leave me" seems to sum up everything you've said BlazenBurn. Really, the only way I can see to deal is to have a thick skin and just show you won't be going anywhere. If you can do that and not take any of it that seriously then you might be able to stay in it.

Commitment is inevitable I find. She'll just have to deal I think. Walk through it. You can't be the measurement of her issue with commitment. Only she can and she'll have to adjust. In this case, "going at the pace of the one who is struggling the most" is just never going to end... You'll just have to prove you have integrity by doing what works best for you and continuing to reassure her.
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