Originally Posted by Bowvine
She says she doesn't want me to poison their relationship. That it is separate from she and me. She doesn't want ME to talk to him. She has made the ultimatum that if I do I will be dumped.
This is not healthy my friend. It reeks of deception and not of a poly aproach.
Especially the "dumping" issue..I doubt this guy even really knows about you.
I think it is you who should do the dumping. Sorry, but you have to look out for yourself in this I think.