She says she doesn't want me to poison their relationship. That it is separate from she and me. She doesn't want ME to talk to him. She has made the ultimatum that if I do I will be dumped.
What you say you would wonder about Redpepper is exactly what I have been thinking. I feel that she has made her other relationship more of a priority than healing ours.
She has said my questioning her is like attacking her, even when I ask calmly. It's a mess, and I don't feel like it is poly either, that she just wants to do what she wants to do without any rules or regard for my feelings. What a mess.
"You can't make a giant just by stretching out a dwarf. One person's beauty mark is another person's wart."