Nope, that's not an overshare at all. I always knew that if I had children, no one in my family would have access to them for that very reason. I have a friend who I put out of my life because it became clear that she could not reason out stuff that was potentially dangerous without 'trying' it first. I wasn't willing be around someone who could not reason that out. I did tell her, and she couldn't comprehend. Confirmation.
Sorry you're distressed over it. You go, mama bear. Make yourself comfortable.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)