Ohhh. Dang, yeah, that all puts things in more context.
So lame. I guess you can force him to make a choice here or you can just determine to ignore their relationship as completely as possible.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.