Regarding increased libido after becoming poly - after having low-ish libido for a while, mine has SPIKED since I discovered the idea of poly and recognized myself as such. Apparently I do have a sex drive
Having only had sex with one person ever, I had no idea that it was the exclusiveness of the relationship itself that was a turnoff. Until now.
Sadly, I have no outlet for it
except possibly for the person I have been in a monoship with, and really, that is a buzzkill right now.