Again, only YOU know what level this is at over there in real life:
- At the inconsiderate/rude place alone.
- Or at the inconsiderate, rude AND abusive place.
I'm just letting you know that as a stranger looking from the outside in? There's enough weird there in your posts to make me go "Ack!" and worry.
If at the abusive place, it is not "sneaking off" to want to get to a safe place FIRST before talking to him so he cannot stop you
from leaving by hurting you.
I certainly hope you are not being abused, and I def wish you were not being treated rudely and inconsiderately.
I'll keep hoping you get you and baby to a better place.