Some of you may have noticed that I take some delight in sending rude messages to spammers when booting them from the site. It's tedious zapping spammers, yet I get some satisfaction from it.
I just zapped 144 spam threads and the spammers who posted them.
Your reports help us find more of the posts that the filters don't catch, as you provide us with many more eyeballs, and we are thankful for that. It makes it easier on me, as I can only poke into so many threads when I'm on here. The filters catch the bulk of it, and you help us root out the rest. Thanks for that.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.