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Old 09-25-2012, 09:51 PM
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Just because they want to doesn't mean they should. Not every attraction or crush needs to be acted upon. Why can't they wait? What's the hurry? I know their desire for each other is probably the reason, but sheesh, use a vibrator and fantasize, for goodness sakes. What are they, children who don't know how to control themselves?

Your wife wants to be with a potential cheater. That means, if she does hook up with this woman, your wife is participating in the deception and is actively putting this woman in the position of lying, hiding, and not being ethical. Why does she thinks that it is okay? This woman feeling neglected by her husband is no excuse and does not justify doing that to him. There may be more behind the scenes that your wife is not privy to. I say, they both need to slow the fuck down and get a grip on reality!
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