oh my goodness! this whole place is so confussing..a friend recently told me to look this site up and said it was something i might be interested in! after looking around a bit i made a profile here...then i find that people here are as judgemental and cruel as they are here in small town oklahoma!! so much for expanding my horizons and being happy about who i am!!! i sent out friend requests just to get to know different types of people,mainly because im a good person who doesnt judge! i send out,"i would like to be your friend." i get back.."Why?" and ..."You dont even know me." gees people lighten up..was only extending a hand shake!!!