There are a lot of couples looking for single women - you might increase your chances of finding someone if you were to talk a little more about who you are and what your requirements are.
Age is a big thing for most people, so what age range you would consider and what age you both are would certainly help.
Can she have children? Pets? Do you have children or pets?
What about smokers, or recreational drugs?
Must she be single or can she also have other relationships?
Hope this helps.
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