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Old 09-23-2012, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted by squirtteacher88 View Post
We'd love to find someone who can bring extra laughter and happiness into our lives and who inspires us both... someone who we can be intimate with one-on-one or all three and without jealousy, and someone who can add extra support to our dynamic (running businesses and families is taxing... ideally we'd be able to support a dream of hers in return). And someone who understands how to be appropriate towards our existing family without being discouraged.
Hmmm, I hope you've thought a lot more about what you can give someone besides "support for a dream." Your wish list appears to be all about what this mythical wonder woman can bring to your relationship and living situation.

If you focus on meeting a PERSON you click with and whose company you enjoy, instead of a way to fit someone into your vision, you'll have much more success.
The world opens up... when you do.

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