How long have you been married and this agreement happen at the outset of your relationship or after you got married ? ...who's idea was it ?
Was this huge hypocritical stance thoroughly discussed before you agreed to these conditions ?
Does your husband have a GF currently ?
I'd do a search on OPP's and invite him to read up ...is he a member here?
have him read this as well
What would be a compromise in the middle ?? Dating a eunuch
I think this was the compromise.