It's funny, Ginger seemed so cautious about becoming fluid bonded with me, even after knowing miss pixi and I had both tested negative. He told me, "I'm still in condom mode." But the next morning, he fucked me bareback and has in every act ever since. I think he likes it more than he thought he would.
Sure makes things easier!
I think he didn't feel 100% sure I was clean, since it hadn't been a full 6 months to my test since I'd had intercourse (with condoms), and barrierless oral sex, with 2 other guys. But I guess, ultimately, he felt comfortable enough.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years