Originally Posted by crisare
FWIW, if my husband were to find a second partner and then tell me that he was spending Christmas with her and not me, I'd be FURIOUS. In our family Christmas is important. He would be welcome to invite her to spend Christmas with us, but leaving me alone for 2 weeks over the holdiday? Unacceptable.
Ya, I wasn't too enchanted by that either. Poly or not, being married should mean that each person has the other person's back, and if one of you should have a problem, it becomes an "our problem".